I decided this is Men’s Health and Help Month. We don’t share enough guidance or lessons learned with each other, so I decided to take the reins. There is something that is not getting enough light and attention right now, and it’s how men feel.
On the flip side
Men might not feel seen, and there’s an overwhelming amount of men feeling lonely.
There’s this wacky belief that men aren’t looking for connection and are not relationship-ready.
Adverse to what society keeps saying to show us and shut us down, there is an overwhelming amount of relationship-ready men.
While it feels like it should not be our responsibility to make up for the negative projections cast upon us, it is up to us to change the narrative.
I know, guys. Another burden we have to take on.
As a man, you know the world isn’t going to cater to us, and we have to make up for the gap in misinformation.
Disclaimer- I don’t write those soft articles that pander to people and say everything will be ok. We have to attack these issues head-on.
Men who want to show women in the dating market they are relationship-ready should follow a few easy guidelines.
Let’s rock.
The Journey
I want to tell you a quick story. Three years ago, I was on a debt payoff journey. I had 60,000 dollars of student loans to pay off, and my second goal was to make six figures.
There are two messages women could have seen. There’s a man with a goal and a plan to get there or a guy buried in debt with no path out.
Well, I achieved both goals. I don’t say that to brag, but I will tell you that women saw me as the first guy in the breakdown above.
The premise didn’t change, but they saw me differently.
Women notice subtle things about you that show your sense of direction and commitment.
They make determinations and assumptions about your romantic life by how you go about your day-to-day. They should.