en hide things from you all the time. This can make it harder to connect with them or see certain sides of them that would improve your relationship.
I argue that society is the main cause of their secretive nature. Men are told and shown from a very young age that they are supposed to be strong and show no vulnerabilities.
However, men do have feelings and vulnerabilities, and trying to keep them bottled up all the time will only leave them scarred. When you know what to look for, you’ll be able to see the things they hide from you and draw them out.
1. They Hide Their Insecurities
Men feel insecure about a lot of things just like you do. They get insecure about their age, finances, appearances, and even height. The fact that they hide their insecurities doesn’t mean they are not there.
I was 10 years old when my dad told me men don’t cry — I genuinely don’t remember the last time I cried. My roommate back in school used to get rejected by girls because he was short. Experiences like these reinforce their need to hide. It’s a coping mechanism.
The fact that they hide their insecurities doesn’t mean.…CONTINUE READING